Saturday, July 13, 2013

Trip to Utah!!!

Yay!  We were so excited and anxiously anticipating this trip out West.  We hadn't seen our families in a whole year, and it was time!  After the girls' retreat in Reno, my parents and I drove back to Utah to meet up with Tim and Max.  Annie flew in that night and we began to party!  Max instantly warmed up to Grandma and Grandpa Holt.  Almost too quickly...he had nothing to do with Tim and I.  Same with Annie.  Max adores her.
We got to see Tim's brothers' families and their adorable kiddos.  Max ran wild with Oscar and Theo.  I wish we lived closer!  He loved his adorable girl cousins Claire and Adelaide.  Knowing our track record, Max won't have much exposure to little baby girls, so it was cute to see him be gentle with them :).  It was fun to see Dev and Christine too!  We visited Tim's wonderful Grandma in Orem.  We went to BYU and walked down memory lane.  It is crazy how much time has gone by since we were there!
Thanks to the world's best baby sitter (Annie), Tim and I got to go to the Bountiful Temple with my parents which was neat. We played tons of Ticket to Ride with my parents and Annie.  The real side of my dad and Tim come out during that game...good and bad.  No, we know it is just a game...right?!?!  We ate so well thanks to my mom's wonderful cooking :).  Taking advantage of the Cafe Rio, Nielsen's Frozen Custard, Dick's Bakery doughnuts, and Rainbow Snow happened as well.  Oh how I wish all of those places were in Ohio!
After a week and half of pure heaven, Annie unfortunately had to move down to Provo to start her sports camp counselor job, and the rest of us went to Bear Lake with my mom's side of the family.  It was a BLAST!  Again, the second we got there Max had absolutely nothing to do with us.  My little cousins were so dang cute with him and Max was eating up that attention more and more each day.  It was beautiful weather and so fun to see family we hadn't seen in a while.  We mini-golfed, swam, talked, played at the beach, rented paddle boats (thanks mom and dad!), rode our bikes to get the best shakes, hiked to a beautiful (and FREEZING) lake, and ate SO MUCH good food!
At the end of the week, my parents graciously drove us to meet up with Tim's family who were coming down from Idaho.  Tim's mom had planned a little family reunion with the Ashworth immediate family for that weekend.  Tim's awesome brother and his sweet wife hosted the whole gang for the weekend and we had a great time sharing memories, playing at the park, and celebrating Father's Day.  It was so fun!  On Sunday we hopped back into the Ashworth's car and drove up to Boise to spend a couple of weeks with Tim's family.
I'm not going to lie, I was VERY homesick leaving Utah.  It was so good to be with my family and to be able to spend so much time with them.  They are the best!  Thanks for the awesome time and memories!  We sure love you all!

Max and his Great-Grandma Ashworth!  She is so delightful!  
Max and Theo.  Best buds from the get-go :).

Oscar, Max, and Theo
Cousin tubby!!  

David (Tim's brother), adorable Adelaide, and Sherry (David's wife).  So fun to see them!
Tackle Uncle Tim!
Saying Max was excited to see Cosmo is an understatement :).
I asked some shy EFY boys if they would take our picture.  Bless their hearts :).  We had
so much fun at BYU!
We splurged and got Max some BYU Football get- up.  Here is the man himself
showing off his football muscles!  
I'm not sure who was more excited about the helemt: Max or his mom...
Never a dull moment with Annie!
My mom was so awesome prepared with potty treats and prizes for Max!
He was one happy kid once he went!
Max and his cute cousin Claire!  She started walking while we were there and
is getting so big and beautiful!  
Park City Outlets!  My mom and Annie were so awesome about helping out
with Mr. Max.   We don't have the best outlets in Ohio, so we had been
waiting to get Doctor Ashworth some nicer clothes when he starts rotations in a
couple of months.  Thanks mom and Annie!  

Sitting down after a lot of shopping!
I LOVE this picture!  What two handsome guys, eh?!!?
Tim and Colonel Sanders.  Tim wanted to go and make the "pilgrimage" to the
first KFC restaurant ever.  He was very serious about going, as you can see in this pic...!
He fits right in, right?
After a yummy meal!
I am glad that Tim had my awesome dad to help appreciate the meal!  I'm always
saying how bad it is for you, even though it tastes so good :).
My parents had Stake Conference while we were visiting and
Elder Holland came!  It was such a cool experience.  I will never forget it :).
Saying bye to Annie.  That was one goodbye I was dreading like the plague...
Same with Max.  He wasn't too happy to wake up the next morning to no Annie.
Hummmm...take your pick: The hot-fit blonde, or the old-pregnant sister...
Max playing his "Toot" with Grandma Holt.  My mom is a great flutist and was practicing
for church and Max was eager to join in.  He didn't quite grasp the correct pronunciation of flute and
kept calling it the toot.  Love it.
Daddy and Max playing mini-golf at Bear Lake.  Tim
got a whole in one on the last whole and won a free game!  
Some of my favorite people in the whole world.  My parents are the best!
They dropped everything and played so hard with us and Max while visiting.
We love them so much and miss them terribly!
Max and his gang.  These guys played so well with him.  I don't think Max was
having a good enough time...
We hiked to a beautiful lake while at Bear Lake.  It was kind of weird to wear jackets,
but was well worth the chill.  It was so pretty :).

Of course, a hike to a lake would not be complete for Tim
without jumping in it.  The water was about 40 degrees.
Did that stop the old Grinch, NO!  Tim is insane. Watch this:
I am a dork and filmed it sideways. Lame.  So if you couldn't tell,
Tim did a back flip off the rope into the ice box.  CRAZY!
My cousin Chandler is crazy as well.  He actually jumped in before Tim did.
After that about 3 other of my cousins did it too.  They were SO cold!  
Max, Oscar, and Theo enjoying a ride in bike trailer :).
Nathan, Thomas, Tim, and Jim (Tim's Dad) right before running the mile.  Nato
had to run it for a scouting merit-badge that morning.  After an amazing breakfast of protein-filled breakfast
burritos, Tim thought he would join in too.  Then Tom.
There is a 15 year gap between these boys, yet they all came within about 15 seconds
 of each other.  The Ashworth boys can do anything, and can dominate!  It makes me sick.
The Eskimo Blanket!  Pete and Tina let the family use this at the park.  I opted
out of being flung up...

Theo had a tramp in his basement!  Max probably spent a total of 3 hours on that thing
with Theo and his uncles :).  
Another cousin tubby!  Baby Adelaide is so cute!  She was a little
overwhelmed by her crazy cousin Max...
The Ashworth Family (minus Alex who is on his mission and gets home in August).
  I love these guys!  We had such a great time being all together :).

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Michelle and Kyle's Wedding/ Dev's Nursing School Graduation!

My dear, dear friend Michelle got married in the Bountiful Temple in June, and Tim and I were able to help celebrate her special day! It was so wonderful to see how happy she and Kyle were together.  It was also wonderful to reunite with some of my close friends that I hadn't seen in a long time!  I am so happy for Michelle and was so so thrilled I was able to make it to her wedding :).
Me, Allie, Gen, and Michelle had a little brunch the day before Michelle
got married.  I wasn't able to make it to her bridal shower, so I was delighted
to see her a little bit before the big day.  I just love all of these girls, and
am so grateful for their friendship!
The Happy Couple!  

Kaitlyn, Allie, Michelle, Gen, and Me.  Michelle looked like a dream!  Such a fun and
special day!! (Gotta love my prego belly hanging out!)


I was also able to go to my brother Devin's nursing school graduation.  I am so proud of him!  Dev and his sweet wife Christine and daughter Claire all worked so hard to get to this point.  Even though he still has more school ahead of him, this is such a huge milestone!  Way to go Dev, and thanks for letting me be there!
Me, Christine,  Devin RN (Ow!), my Mom and Dad.  Yes, I'm
the awkwardly placed pregnant woman on the edge.  


Girls' Retreat in Reno!!!

1. I have the best sisters and parents in the whole world!
2. I have the best husband in the whole world!
3. Those amazing sisters and parents made it possible for me to change my flight plans (we had already bought tickets to go out West this summer) and fly to to Reno where all of us could be together for a day and a half.  My sister Camille who lives in Reno, was going to move across the country with her hubby and six kiddos in two weeks, but still was so gracious to let us dump ourselves in her home!  My sister Annie had been in Reno with Camille helping her for the a few weeks, so she was already there.  My other sister Elise drove from Oregon to meet up with us (not to mention paying the difference in cost so I could fly to Reno instead of Utah :). AND my awesome parents drove all the way from Utah to be there too!
4.  That amazing husband changed his schedule around so I could leave to Reno early.  He also volunteered to fly with Max to Utah so that I could be with my sisters and mom. I left Tuesday afternoon to Reno and Tim left Wednesday morning to Utah.  He and Max partied it up at my parents house (without my parents or me) for 2 days while we were in Reno.  Thanks Timmy!! Not like Max would have ruined the party...but he probably would not have appreciated the hours of shopping, late night talking, more shopping, and pedicures. Although he would have enjoyed the amazing brunch Camille made, and the mouth watering Mexican Restaurant my parents took us to.  
My Dad stayed home with Camille's kiddos on Wednesday so us girls could got out for literally the whole day and be together.  You are the best Dad!
It was so fun to be with my best friends!  We are all in such different stages of life right now, that this was kin d of our last chance to all be together for a while.  It doesn't matter how long it has been since we've been together, we always hit it off.  I wish all of us weren't so separated around the country, but at least we can still talk to each other on the phone. I love you all!!!
Elise, Annie, my Mom, and Camille.  I love all of these beautiful girls!!!

Shopping...

Shopping...

....and SHOPPING!  We went a little crazy I guess.

Right before we stuffed our faces with an amazing meal!  Love you all and thanks
for one of the best memories!

Riding Thomas Train!

My friend was way too kind and gave us 3 tickets to "Ride Thomas the Train!"  Max was in heaven!  Max was a little scared of the crowd, but we had a great time!
Not the best pic of the boys, but way off in the distance, you  can
see Thomas chugging up the tracks.  So fun!
Waiting in line...can hardly stand it!
Max was smiling like that pretty much the whole time.  
His very own train ticket!
Max and Daddy.  They are looking more alike every day :).
Sir Topham Hatt punching Max's ticket.  They did a great job!  

Week of Misery and Fathers' and Sons'

 This week was the start of potty training Max.  Many of you know how much fun I had doing it...  It was miserable, exhausting, and the most emotionally draining thing I've done since being a parent.  I had to follow Max around for 1 week and say, "Tell Mommy when you have to go potty." If he went on the toilet, I made the biggest deal out of it.  If he had an accident, I tried to keep my cool and say, "It's okay, it was an accident."  We were making such GOOD progress by Day 3, that we declared him pretty much potty-trained.
Unfortunately, we spoke too soon folks.
Day 4, 5, and 6 were a joke.  Max all of a sudden got scared to death of going poop on the toilet.  And I really mean scared to death.  I couldn't go anywhere because he always had to go potty. He would freak out to the major extremes of all extremes. I would try to be patient and not get upset, but the tears came.  There were periods when Max was lying on the bathroom floor screaming his guts out, and I was crouched down crying in the hall way. I was so done.  I was clueless.  I was about to give up.
Luckily, Tim rocks :). Despite Max's serious potty issues, Tim took the little guy to Fathers' and Sons' with him.  Talk about the best thing that could happen for both Max and I.  We were at the point of wanting to kill each other.
After a major deep cleaning of my pee-infested bathroom and house AND a night/morning to myself, I was ready to go again.  Report of potty training at Fathers' and Sons' was, "Ya, the first thing he did when he got out of the car was pee his pants."  Tim opted for diapers, (even though we had "thrown our diapers away because they were only for babies...") and they had a great time.
It has been almost 2 months since we started the potty party with Max.  After a lot of advice, prayers asking for patience and a miracle, and an awesome Grandma who had the best potty treats and prizes, aunts and uncles who can take him potty, Max can now say, "Mom (or) Dad!  I need to go potty!!!!"  He then goes into the bathroom, pushes the stool to the toilet, pulls his pants down, and goes.  Then he pushes his stool in front of the sink and puts about 2 Tablespoons of soap in his little hands and cleans them!  Then he wipes his hands on his towel and yells, "I get a sucker!" or "I get a tic-tac!"  Max can't turn off the water yet, and I'll go in 5 or 10 minutes later to the sink still running.  Sweet little guy :).  He still procrastinates to the very last second to actually go through that process, but he eventually does it.
Thank you Tim and family and friends who kept me going, sane, and alive during all of this.  I am so glad that it is done before the little bean is born next month.  I can't even begin to imagine how it would go with a newborn.  So I won't.  Yay for Max!  He is such a big boy :).
Max and and friends at Fathers' and Sons'


Max thinking, "I am so glad I'm not with my torturing mom right now!"
What else could make him this happy?

Going to bed...

...Waking up?

I am so proud of Tim for taking this many pictures.  I made it seem like I wouldn't
allow them to come back if he didn't come back with pictures, so he was very obedient :). 
You can just smell the syrup all over Max...
Down...Set...

....Hike!




The bath after the camp out.  This water wasn't clear for long... I was gone running errands still, and
Tim said he stood right up in the middle of the bath and pooed in the water.  Darling.
The Potty King!  This was taken after about an hour of  weeping, wailing, and
gnashing of teeth trying to get Max to go poo on the toilet.  His tummy-ache
was finally gone!  Of course, the first thing we do is stuff him full of ice cream...