Thursday, January 23, 2014

Jake's Blessing

We were able to bless our sweet Jacob Timothy Ashworth on December 27, 2013.  My parents are wonderful and drove us up to Boise after a wonderful visit.  When we got to Tim's parent's house, all of Tim's siblings were there!  It was so good to be with every single Ashworth!!  All of our families were champs and quickly got ready for Jake's blessing.  Within one hour of us being there, Tim gave our newest little boy a beautiful blessing.  It was such a sweet experience for me.
After the blessing, we all enjoyed an amazing meal that Alison prepared for us!  I am so blessed to have the family that I do.  I am the luckiest woman alive to be the wife of Tim and the mother of Jake and Max.  My parents and siblings mean the world to me, and I couldn't have asked for a better family to marry into! 
Overall, this special day couldn't have gone better.  Thank you everyone for supporting us and enjoying our sweet little Jake!
Thanks to my talented and awesome Dad, we were able to get some great pictures of Jake's special day!
The man himself! Sweet Jake, we love you so much!


My wonderful parents and in-laws.  The best people I know :). 

I love this picture :).  So near and dear to my heart.  Although, I
wish Jake was looking!

Picture of Ashworth boys...take one...


...take two. What a handsome group of men!

My family!  Jake didn't want to look at the camera all night
apparently.  Oh well, he is still adorable.  Max looks about as cute as ever, what
a sweetheart! 

The Ashworth Family 2013!

This picture was not taken on the blessing day, but
I had to put it in just because.  It wasn't supposed to be
taken as our family picture, but I thought it turned out so cute.
In front of the igloo!
Thanks Dad!!! 

Our lives as of late!

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!  It has been such a wonderful few months even though it has been FREEZING!  We've had maybe 4 or 5 days where it has been bearable to go on a walk or run outside, but other than that, we've been chilling inside. So grateful for our warm little home, we are blessed to have it. 
So a quick little run down of what is going on with each of us and then get ready for a picture show! 
Tim: The doctor is in the middle of his OB/GYN rotation right now and actually kind of likes it.  Don't worry, he isn't going to become an OB/GYN the hours and politics are too crazy.  He enjoys labor and delivery though and has been able to deliver multiple babies. He would kill me that I'm writing this, but he is pretty much rocking this rotation.  All of the doctors, residents, and nurses love him :).  They keep telling him what a good job he is doing.  So proud of my doctor! 
After this rotation, he will move onto pediatrics.  Then he will take a break from rotations for a month and complete an AI (acting internship) at the Cleveland Clinic for the month of April.  It is an internship for Orthopedics and required to apply for residency.  Actually, he is hopefully going to do 4 AIs' this next year.  Basically he gets to do all the grunt work for 4 weeks in the Orthopedic field.  Lovely. 
After his AI in April, he'll hop on board the rotation train again and finish his 3rd year of med school with the internal medicine rotation.  4th year starts in July and his schedule is kind of foggy as to what happens when.  The only thing that we know is that it will not be as hard and time consuming as this year has been.  Halleluiah!  He works so hard and is enjoying his time in the hospital...for the most part.
Max: Max has most certainty made the transition from toddler to little boy.  He keeps us on our toes with his growing vocabulary, curiosity, adventurism, and crazy personality.  This year he said goodbye to nursery and hello to primary!  I can't believe I have a sunbeam aged child.  So weird.  He loves it and actually gave the opening prayer last week!  He is into race cars, flying his airplanes around, eating way too much popcorn, his preschool, reading, playing gently with Jake, and singing songs to himself as he goes about his day.  I love hearing him sing as he sits on the toilet, or as he is falling asleep.  Nothing better :).  He got a bike for Christmas and is on pins and needles waiting for it to warm up so he can ride it outside.  He has gotten so tall and is looking more and more like his handsome daddy.  Love my crazy Max!
Jake: Jake is 5 months TODAY!  5 months and quite the chunky monkey!  To put it bluntly, he is huge.  I am so grateful for a healthy guy though.  Jake is the cutest baby and smiles ALL the time.  I love it!  He will smile at anyone.  I get stopped all the time by people who want to "take a peek" at Jake and get to see his sweet chubby happy face.  Jake is rolling over, drooling like crazy (we go through at least 3 bibs a day and 3 outfits), laughing, making sounds with his lips and cute voice box,  grabbing at everything, wearing out his johnny-jump-up, and for some reason waking up more than I would like during the night.  He used to sleep through the night, and I have faith that he will return to that habit soon.  If not, I might go crazy.  No, I can't complain for one second about Jake.  He is such a good baby and has made our family so happy and fun!!  I love seeing him light up when Max plays with him.  Those two love each other, and I am so blessed to have them!
Me: I love life right now.  Even though it is hard and the days are long and cold, I am trying to be positive.  After being with both of our amazing families for the Holidays, it was hard coming back to living.  BUT, we are living each day one at a time. Literally.  I am keeping sane with calls to family, playing with my 3 wonderful boys, reading good books, working out when I can find the motivation, my calling in the primary, and my friends here.  The time me and the boys get to spend with Tim is precious and we cherish every moment we get with him!

Here are the wonderful times we had with our families while visiting in December/January:
Beautiful Annie and Conner...no, that isn't they're baby, that is mine!  We love Conner
and were so glad to finally meet him!  Annie and Conner are the cutest couple and it was so fun
to spend time with them! 

My wonderful mom and dad!  They were kind enough to take us to the Lion House for dinner.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
These two spoiled us like rotten this trip (as always).  My parents always drop whatever is going on in their lives and
focus their family.  I am so lucky to have them! We had such a good time and are counting down the days to see them again! Jake and Max are so lucky to have such wonderful Grandparents on both sides :). 

My dear friends Brooke and Kathy with our kids!  They both have moved from Cleveland
to Utah, and we missed them too much not to see them!  So good to get together!

So much fun cousin time!!!  Max was in heaven and asked about every 30 seconds if he could
play with his cousins.  I got to see all of my siblings except for two, it was a blast!  We sure missed Dallin and Camille,
but hopefully in the not too far future there will be an event with Annie and Conner that will allow all of us to
get together!

The rocket ship museum!  Max was so so excited to finally go to the long-talked-up
science museum by my parents house.  He was one happy guy to see all the  cool exhibits.  And
of course to enjoy them with his cousins and Grandpa Holt!

Temple Square Christmas Lights!  It was a cold night, but my parents were champs
to take us to see the magical lights! 

A trip to Utah wouldn't be complete without one of these pics :).  Sure loved
being with my sisters (I feel bad I didn't get a picture with Elise!  So lame of me...)!
I have the best sisters in the world and am so grateful for them.

The annual Brockbank family progressive Christmas dinner.  I was so glad to
be in town for one of my favorite Christmas traditions.  My Uncle Joe rocks, and
made this awesome trailer ride for the kids to sing carols on from house to house. I used
to sit on that and sing at the top of my lungs :).  Max is
in the corner with his red hat.  My younger cousins are so cute with Max, he loves being with them!

We were so delighted to visit Grandma Ashworth!  Tim's Grandma is one
of the sweetest people I know, and I always love
being with her.  She was so wonderful and always
makes us feel welcome :). 

Behold: The Christmas Eve Igloo.  Tim gets to take the credit on this,
but I did help him a little bit.  Ashworth boys know how to make a snow
igloo, that is for darn sure!

Jake staring as Baby Jesus in the nativity.  He did such a great job!!

Max also stared in the nativity as a Wiseman.  My cousin Lily
organized all the costumes for the nativity and it was so sweet to see.  Max
thought dressing up was the coolest thing ever.  Love this picture :).

Playing cars with Ezzy!  It took a second, but Max and Ezzy became
cousin buddies!  So fun to be with the Dixons!

Christmas morning 2013!  We had such a magical day with my family!  It was
so fun to be together and celebrate the birth of our Savior.  What a wonderful memories!

Tim and his brothers in a "very serious" air-soft gun war.  Not sure if that is
how you spell that...
I love that Tim gets to spend so much time with his brothers when we visit.  He
enjoys it so much, and we all love it too!

Grandpa Ashworth's belated 60th Birthday!  Not to mention anyone in specific,
but all of the "away" Ashworth boys forgot they're Dad's 60th birthday.  After feeling
sick discovering that, they quickly redeemed themselves with cards and phone calls after the big
day.  I still felt awful, so we threw him a surprise birthday party a few weeks later when we were all together.
Jim is such a good father, husband, and grandpa and deserves to be honored!  He is so unselfish and one
of the hardest workers I know.  He is the only 60 year old that I know that rides his bike (no matter the weather) 7 miles to and from his work every day!  He is a wonderful example of living the gospel 100% and can
do or fix just about anything.  Thankfully, he taught his sons a lot of his genius work and it sure saves our family a lot of time, hassle, and money.   We love him and are so lucky to have him in our lives! 

Max and Theo!  I am so glad these boys got to play so much together.  I wish
so badly that we lived closer!!

The two newest Ashworth grandchildren: Miss Adelaide and Jake.  She is the
cutest little sweetheart!  So glad we were finally able to meet her!

Tim's mom and my boys.  I love this picture and everyone
in it!  Max had such a good time playing with his Grandma!
Max would ask way too often, "Can you play with me Grandma?"  She
always made time for him and made him feel like a million bucks!  She is so wonderful!
(Max asked that question to my parents, my siblings, Tim's brothers', and anyone else
that was in the house.  Thanks to everyone for being so sweet with him!!)

While we were in Idaho, Moo Moo (Tim's mom's mom) got to
spend a lot of time with us and we were so glad!  She is 90 and going
strong.  She is such a delight to be with!  She invited us over for a
yummy lunch and I had to take a picture of the table she set.  What a woman!  We
sure love you Moo Moo!

Thursday, December 5, 2013

And That's The Way They Do It On The Polar Express!!

Max's awesome preschool took a field trip to ride the Polar Express Train to the North Pole this week!  It exceeded ALL of our expectations!  The whole affair was run by about 300 volunteers and they did such a good job.  They thought of everything: singing the "Hot Chocolate" song from the movie, handing out hot chocolate and cookies, letting the kids wear pajamas, having a pajama parade, and reading the actual Polar Express story to the kids. 
The best part was when we finally reached the North Pole.  I didn't know how they were going to create the North Pole, but they sure created it!  The train slowed down once we arrived and chugged along the tracks for about 10 minutes so all the kids could look out the window and see the North Pole.  They decorated buildings like crazy, and had about 100 elves waving to the kids.  There was a giant Christmas tree, frosty the snowman, Rudolph, and Santa Claus in his sleigh who eventually came on the train and sat with each kid.  Santa asked them what they wanted for Christmas and gave them a silver bell, just like the one in the book. 
Max had a riot, and I was so impressed! Jake was perfect and smiled at all of the sweet Grandma Elves. It was magical to see the kids eyes light up and feel their excitement :).  Our only regret was Tim wasn't able to be there, but hopefully he can make it next year! 
Max and one of his best buddies Elliot :).  Just about to board the train!  So glad
that Jake and Mae could come too!

"Mom, this is so fun!!!!"

Our little crew :). 

Don't forget about me!!

So cute!!  This is of course the times they aren't growling, or jumping off high
surfaces, or yelling at the top of their lungs, or tackling each other, etc....what can you expect with
3 year old boys, right?!?!

Santa Claus!!! 

 

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Oh what fun we've had!

Well, it is 6:00am right now and I am blogging. I'm crazy. Definitely not in the mood to work out.  Tim left in the 27 (real feel 19) degree darkness about an hour and a half ago to the hospital on his bike.  The doc has been through it these past couple of weeks.  We only have a week and a half more to go of the surgery rotation!  Hurray!  Honestly, once I mentally decided that I would have the attitude of "Tim never being home and if he was it was a bonus", I've been able to manage for the most part.  Luckily, he is working with a resident right now who lets him go at a reasonable hour.  The resident has a wife and kids to get home too as well...a life outside of the hospital.  That is a concept. I do not understand the doctors that Tim tells me about who eat, drink, breath, love, live, and worship the hospital enough to NEVER leave.  Bless all of their hearts. 
Tim will come home and we'll eat dinner if he is lucky enough to be home for it, play with the boys, help me, and then start studying or following up on patients.  He is working so hard, I don't know how he does it all!  We are usually in bed at 9:00pm and up who knows when.  The best is when I fall asleep to Max still playing in his room, hoping he makes it to his bed with his covers on.  Max has been a champ through this rotation...for the most part.  I have really tried to be more patient with him and choose my battles.  It has made a HUGE difference.  A lot of the "Max" issues we have been having lately, come to find out, are really to be blamed on ME!  It is so true that if the Mom is grumpy, impatient, tired, and depressed, then usually the whole family is.  So...I have put on my "positive thinking/attitude" cap and things have been good.  Except when they're not.  But, for the most part, it's not that bad! 
Surviving is made possible for us by our dear friends here in Cleveland, phone calls and skyping with family, library days, reading to Max till we've read the same library books 48 times, baking fall everything, eating, dance parties, the precious moments when Jake is smiling and Max is being a good buddy to him and me, the NEW SUPER WALMART (not the old one where nothing was in stalk, the 20 minutes of waiting in check out lines, and the feeling like I might be shot or mugged every time I went...yes, me and the boys were at the new one on opening day baby, and it was glorious! There may have even been tears in my eyes... I knew it would be fully stalked and clean just for that day though, and I was right. The next week when I went, I couldn't find about 4 or 5 things on my list.  BUT, I am not complaining, it is such an improvement of the old one!  Oh Cleveland...sigh...)yummy smelling candles, Costco, cuddling under out fuzzy blankets, Tim's "made-way -too-often kettle corn, Jake's little "cooing" sounds, Tim's positive attitude  BYU Football, my blessed treadmill, Christmas shopping for my family, our new Nexus 7 tablet(my laptop is ancient and ready to blow up. We found a super good deal online for the Nexus and have loved it!) and subscription to Netflix (turning nursing into a whole new experience!!), enjoying the Holidays, our warm little home in the chill of Cleveland, AND Max starting preschool! Here are some pics:
Little snuggle bugs!  We have had a tragedy with the well loved Snow Bear Max is
holding.  He is missing.  We. Have. Looked. Everywhere.  Tim and I feel so bad, we really
do.  I think he is a lost cause.  May whoever stole him (we think in the church parking lot) enjoy
the #1 thing that kept my 3 year old the happiest boy on earth.  We will miss you desperately Snow Bear!

"I was working so hard during tummy time with Daddy, that I  had had it." Zzzzzz!

No comment.

Some weeks I am more diligent than others of focusing on a letter theme.  A couple of weeks ago was
"C" week, and Max loved coloring his Crown.  He is becoming quite the little artist!

It snowed!  Well, actually a couple of times now.  The second Tim got home the first snow, Max literally pushed him out the door to make a snowman on our little
patch of back yard.  Mas and Jake so lucky to have such a good Daddy!

Walking in the beautiful cemetery with the fall leaves!  That is one cute kid we've got...

The Knight in shining armor, the Dragon, the Princess, and last but not least, King Jake.  Yes,
we look totally awesome, right?!?!  And yes, these costumes (besides Max's adorable dragon one...thanks so much Grandma Holt!) were put together about 2 hours before our ward party.  You can't tell at all though...they are so elaborate. 

Don't worry fellow citizens, I have the kingdom completely under control.

Pumpkin carving!

Tim gets to take all the credit.  I contributed by cutting the eyes and part of the mouth before I
cut off one of the teeth. 

And Tim claims he has not artistic ability...

We invited some friends over and made Haunted Houses!  I burned sugar to stick the graham crackers
together.  It was kind of messy, but worked like a charm!

This was all Max.  So cute :). 

Halloween!  It was pouring rain, pitch black, and past Max's bedtime when
Tim finally got home and took our little Dragon out for treak-or-treating.  Jake and I stayed and handed
out candy to a surprisingly big crew this year.  I think it was all due to the awesome pumpkin we carved and lit. 
Way to go Tim!

Right after waking up.  I was on a run, and Tim and Max had a photo shoot.  Max told Tim, "Dad, I just want to take a break.  Can you take a picture of me?"  I don't think
it gets much cuter than this... 

....Well maybe a little bit cuter! 

The smirk.  Watch out ladies!

There is a time and a season for these precious legs.  Jake, you sure know how to pull
them off buddy! 

Okay, I can't believe I have a preschooler!  Thanks to my dear friend who told us about this preschool!  It is
called the Cleveland Sight Center.  Half of the children are blind, and have are not.  There are only 14 kids in Max's
class to 3 teachers and then some volunteers.  The main teacher is a dream and was born to teach preschool!  Max gets to
go with two of his good friends and LOVES it!  The director worked with us on the price since we are so rich right now, which was a huge blessing!  Max goes 2 days a week from 9:30-3:00.  The preschool goes on all kinds of field trips like riding the polar express, horse back riding, and jumping gyms.  They have awesome parties for each holiday too!  This preschool keeps both Max and I very happy!  I sure miss my buddy, but have no doubt he is having the time of his life! 

First day of school! 

Tummy Time!  Jake is so advanced for a 2 1/2 month old.  Max is such a good big brother!

Tim had to go into the hospital all day on Saturday, so Max and I decided to go and get a treat.
My friend had given me a gift card to a yummy bakery close by and Max and I made a date of it!
As we were walking out, this kind lady opened the door for me and the boys and said," Wow, you are brave.  I
could barely do that with one kid!"  That made me feel good.  I guess you could call me brave, but a little crazy attempting some of the adventures me and boys go on!   It makes life interesting I guess!  I am sure lucky and blessed to be a wife and mother of such stellar boys!